In a world that profits from your shame, being yourself is revolutionary.

Are you ready to make 2026 the year
you stop denying your deepest desires?

Your erotic agency is not something you earn. It’s something you reclaim. And that reclamation? It’s the most revolutionary act you can commit.

Ready to Join?  Explore Which Path is Right for You...

SLUTTY (Sexually Liberated and Unapologetically Taking Time for You) is a femme-led, all-gender, year-long journey into pleasure, presence, and personal power. This transformational program creates a brave space where you can shed shame, explore your deepest desires, reclaim your body as sacred, and build relationships that honor your whole, authentic self—including the parts you’ve been taught to hide.

The 2026 cohort begins January 3rd with a kick-off call, CORE online learning, plus optional virtual sessions (SALON, GO DEEPER) and/or monthly in-person GATHER sessions at BOINK in western Massachusetts.

This Journey is for You if...

You’re ready to stop apologizing for your desires.

You want to explore sexuality, kink, or non-monogamy in a safe, shame-free space.

You’re tired of feeling disconnected from your body. You identify as LGBTQ+, kinky, non-monogamous, or are questioning your gender expression or sexuality.

All genders welcome.

All bodies celebrated.

All desires honored.

Expert Guidance

Led by Jennifer Rahner, a Certified Sexologist who lives her life out loud. She is Kink Informed Certified, CNM Certified,  and studied with Betty Dodson, Reid Mihalko, Barbara Carrellas, Midori and others. Featured in Cosmopolitan, Toronto Sun, and U.S. News & World Report, Fatherly.

Safe, Inclusive Space

Specifically designed for those curious about or identifying as LGBTQ+, kinky, or consensually non-monogamous. Strict confidentiality agreements. Femme-led, all-genders welcome. What’s shared in SLUTTY stays in SLUTTY.

Real Transformation

Not surface-level self-help—this is deep, embodied work. Learn concrete practices to experience more pleasure, shed shame about desires, improve communication, and build authentic connections.

12 Month Transformational Journey

Each month we'll explore a different theme, building until the end of the year SLUTTY celebration of how far you've come!  Anchored in wisdom from Audre Lorde, adrienne maree brown, Betty Dodson, Brené Brown, and more.

January

Reclaiming the Erotic


We'll reframe the term "slutty" as devotion to aliveness, curiosity, and truth rather than shame or stereotype. Explore what being fully alive means to you through sensual journaling and creating your personal Erotic Manifesto.


February

Releasing Shame


We'll unlearn cultural conditioning about our bodies, gender, and sexuality through somatic shame release and compassionate mirror work. Discover the link between vulnerability and power as you reframe old stories that no longer serve you.

March

Body Literacy &
Sensual Presence


We'll learn to listen to our bodies as oracle, attuning to pleasure, boundaries, and our yes/no signals. Practice breath, touch, and movement to awaken your senses and map your unique pleasure landscape.

April

Solo Sexuality &
Self-Worship


We'll honor self-pleasure as devotion, sovereignty, and healing beyond performance. Create a sensual altar and practice touching yourself like you're sacred through guided self-worship rituals.

May

Emotional Alchemy

We'll metabolize difficult feelings (desire, jealousy, envy) as fuel for connection, clarity, and transformation. Learn somatic processing techniques to discover the wisdom living in all your emotions

June

Designing Desire


We'll design our relational life with clarity and consent, identifying what we truly burn for. Practice desire mapping, boundary creation, and embodied yes/no exploration to support your liberation.


July

Play & Embodiment

We'll reclaim joy and curiosity through somatic improvisation, kink, and creative ritual. Expand your erotic capacity through partner play, sensual movement, and playful exploration.

August

Power, Command, & Consent

We'll develop inner authority, boundaries, and confident communication as we explore eros as power. Practice command voice and reclaim "no" as a sacred spell to dominate your own life.

September

Eros in Community

We'll navigate erotic energy, connection, and consent in community spaces with sovereignty. Learn accountability rituals and practice showing up slutty and sovereign with others.

October

Myth, Archetype, & Fantasy

We'll integrate shadow, fantasy, and archetype to access hidden power and play. Embody erotic personas through archetype labs, fantasy writing, and erotic mask rituals.

November

Ritual & Integration

We'll weave eros into daily and communal life by ritualizing our pleasure and power. Design personal erotic rituals and practice pleasure as prayer to sustain your transformation.

December

Crowning & Celebration


Finally, we'll celebrate our transformation and offer embodied wisdom back to the community. Reflect on who you've become through your slutty devotion and crown your year-long journey.

Monthly Rhythm

Depending upon the path you choose, you'll have access to CORE learning and some combination of the other sessions.

CORE: learning essentials

Online self-study modules accessible via phone or laptop, and available the first of each month, to introduce the theme, teach core information, suggest self-work, and provide additional resources for deeper exploration. 

SALON: discuss & reflect in community

We'll meet virtually on the second Tuesday of each month from 7:30-9pm ET for virtual peer discussion and reflection circles for integration and community support.

GO DEEPER: special guests & deep dives

Each third Tuesday from 7:30-9pm ET) we'll dive into advanced virtual sessions with guest teachers and deeper skill-building.

GATHER: in-person immersive experiences

Come out each fourth Saturday from 2-4pm for in-person immersions at BOINK in Holyoke, MA, featuring hands-on embodied practices, ritual, and connection.

5 Paths to Choose From

Choose from virtual only, hybrid learning and community, in any of 5 combinations.  Not sure which path is right for you?  Take the quiz to help guide your selection.

curious

  • Virtual self-study
  • CORE learning modules
  • CURIOUS group chat on Signal
  • Resources

CURious

  • Virtual self-study
  • CORE learning modules
  • CURIOUS group chat on Signal
  • Resources

CURIOUS

  • Virtual self-study
  • All CORE learning modules
  • CURIOUS group chat on Signal

connected

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • CONNECTED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly SALON virtual community sessions

Connected

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • CONNECTED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly SALON virtual community sessions

connected

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • All CORE learning modules
  • Monthly SALON virtual meetings

embodied

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • EMBODIED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person meetings on the fourth Saturday, at BOINK in Holyoke, MA
  • Brunch spread at GATHER

embodied 

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • EMBODIED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person meetings on the fourth Saturday, at BOINK in Holyoke, MA
  • Brunch spread at GATHER

Curious

  • Self-study
  • All CORE learning modules
  • CORE group chat on Signal
  • Resources

embodied 

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • EMBODIED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person meetings on the fourth Saturday, at BOINK in Holyoke, MA
  • Brunch spread at GATHER

Embodied

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • EMBODIED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly in-person GATHER meetings at BOINK in Holyoke, Massachusetts

EMBODIED

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • EMBODIED group chat on Signal 
  • Monthly in-person GATHER sessions at BOINK in Holyoke, MA

EMBODIED

  • Everything included in CURIOUS
  • EMBODIED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person sessions at BOINK in Holyoke, MA

devoted

  • Everything included in CONNECTED
  • DEVOTED group chat on Signal
  • GO DEEPER sessions with special guests the third week of each month

DEVOTED

  • Everything included in CONNECTED 
  • DEVOTED group chat on Signal
  • GO DEEPER sessions with special guests on the third Tuesday of the month

DEVOTED

  • Everything included in CONNECTED
  • DEVOTED group chat on Signal
  • GO DEEPER virtual sessions featuring special guests

ALCHEMIST

  • Everything in DEVOTED
  • DEVOTED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person meetings on the fourth Saturday, at BOINK in Holyoke, MA
  • Brunch spread at GATHER

ALCHEMIST

  • Everything included in CONNECTED
  • ALCHEMIST group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person meetings on the fourth Saturday, at BOINK in Holyoke, MA
  • Brunch spread at GATHER

ALCHEMIST

  • Everything in DEVOTED
  • DEVOTED group chat on Signal
  • Monthly GATHER in-person meetings on the fourth Saturday, at BOINK in Holyoke, MA
  • Brunch spread at GATHER

Your Guide

Hi,

I'm  Jennifer

SLUTTY has been on my mind for years now, and I'm so excited to bring this program to life!  The path you'll follow in SLUTTY echoes my own - exploring the myriad ways to live your most authentic life.

Wondering what it's like to work with me?
“Jenn holds such a uniquely inviting space. As a queer person of color my spidey senses are always at attention when I’m in group settings. Jenn’s gentle, steady spirit proved a capable guide for getting to, revealing and holding my best kept shadows and secrets. Get involved if you feel called! I did and I have zero regrets.”

Faq

Your questions, answered. If you don’t see your question here, reach out—I’m here to help you find the right path.

Do I need to be local to western Massachusetts?

No! Curious, Connected, and Devoted tiers are 100% virtual. Only Embodied and Alchemist include in-person gatherings at BOINK.

Is this only for women?

No. I believe we all have more in common than differences.  SLUTTY is femme-led and open all genders. All bodies, identities, and expressions welcome.

What if I've never explored kink or non-monogamy?

Perfect! Curiosity is the only requirement. This program meets you where you are.  You don't get assignments - you get invitations and it's up to you whether to explore further or not.

Is this confidential?

Absolutely. What’s shared in SLUTTY stays in SLUTTY. We'll discuss community agreements around consent and confidentiality during our kick-off call, and all participants must agree to abide by them. 

Can i change my path later?

Yes! While we ask that you commit to the full year, you may alter your path along the way. 

Are there scholarships or accessible pricing?

Yes.  Sliding scale is available for Curious, Connected, and Embodied tiers. Contact Jennifer directly to discuss accessible pricing.

can I do just the online course?

Yes.  Choose the CURIOUS path and you'll receive all online learning.

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